Gender-based violence (GBV) is often seen as an issue affecting women and girls, but it is important to recognize that men and boys are also victims. In Kenya, cultural norms and societal expectations make it difficult for men to speak out about their experiences with GBV. Many fear judgment, ridicule, or being seen as weak. This silence, however, does not mean that GBV against men does not exist.
Men face different forms of GBV, including physical abuse, emotional manipulation, and economic control. Key populations, such as men who have sex with men (MSM) or men living with HIV, are particularly vulnerable due to stigma and discrimination. Unfortunately, because these issues are rarely discussed openly, the victims are often left to suffer in silence, with minimal support or understanding from their communities.
This year’s World AIDS Day theme in Kenya puts the spotlight on men and boys, aiming to address some of these challenges. In a groundbreaking move, the event will feature a marathon where men and boys will take center stage, symbolizing resilience, unity, and the need for open conversations about their health and well-being. This initiative not only acknowledges the critical role men play in fighting HIV but also creates a platform to discuss issues like GBV that are rarely associated with men.
The marathon is an opportunity to break the silence and challenge harmful stereotypes that prevent men from seeking help. It is also a chance to reinforce the importance of men’s participation in ending HIV and GBV in Kenya. As the country gears up for World AIDS Day 2024, we must ensure that men feel supported to speak out about their struggles and become active partners in creating a violence-free society.
Let us use this event to advocate for inclusivity and raise awareness that GBV is not just a women’s issue—it affects everyone. By addressing GBV and HIV together, we can take meaningful steps toward a healthier, more equitable Kenya.